Friday, December 16, 2011

Healthy vs. Schmealthy

Healthy holidays? Really? Is that even possible? It’s a complete oxymoron if you ask me. Although I’ve been consistently unsuccessful with keeping my weight down, my blood pressure down, my energy up, my sleep regular, and my stress nonexistent over said holidays in past years, I’m going to give it another exuberant attempt this year! I’m determined.

To help ensure my success, I’m not calling it Healthy. That word scares me. It implies a lack of fun & spontaneity, and a plethora of restrictions, rules and longing for just one bite of something naughty. This year, I’m calling it Schmealthy.
  • Being schmealthy will allow me to have fun with my kids more, spontaneously invite friends for dinner more, and to live without restrictions, rules, and longing.
  • Being schmealthy will encourage me to eat small quantities of delicious, new-found veggies, fruits, whole grains, and low-fat dairy throughout the day.
  • Being schmealthy will get me out of my chair at work to take a flight and wish holiday greetings to my coworker friends.
  • Being schmealthy will put me in the FitZone during a Core Fitness class, or working the elliptical and laughing heartily during an episode of Ellen DeGeneres.
  • Being schmealthy will mean walking to Horizon Elementary for my monthly volunteer tutoring, taking my cooped-up and way-too-hyper dogs for a jog/walk to the duck pond more nights than not.
  • As a schmealthy mom, I will take my chefs-in-training kids with me to the grocery store to discover new options that they can help me cook for dinner, after which we will enjoy a small, sweet and delightful treat to satisfy our longing taste buds.
  • As a schmealthy woman, I will fall into bed exhausted from my active day, and sleep soundly for a solid 8 hours, and then wake refreshed, renewed, and ready to tackle it all again.
Come to think of it, I’m actually looking forward to a schmealthy holiday and hope that it will set me on the right path for an even schmealthier 2012!

 

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

I Need A Silent Night

by Amy Grant



I've made the same mistake before
Too many malls, too many stores
December traffic, Christmas rush
It breaks me till I push and shove

Children are crying while mothers are trying
To photograph Santa and sleigh
The shopping and buying and standing forever in line
What can I say?

I need a silent night, a holy night
To hear an angel voice through the chaos and the noise
I need a midnight clear, a little peace right here
To end this crazy day with a silent night

December comes then disappears
Faster and faster every year
Did my own mother keep this pace
Or was the world a different place?

Where people stayed home wishing for snow
Watching three channels on their TV
Look at us now rushing around
Trying to buy Christmas peace

I need a silent night, a holy night
To hear an angel voice through the chaos and the noise
I need a midnight clear, a little peace right here
To end this crazy day with a silent night

What was it like back there in Bethlehem
With peace on earth, good will toward men?

Every shepherd's out in the field
Keeping watch over their clock by night
And the glory of the Lord shone around them
And they were so afraid

And the angels said fear not for behold
I bring you good news of a great joy that shall be for all people
For unto you is born this day a Savior, who is Christ the Lord
And his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Prince of Peace

I need a silent night, a holy night
To hear an angel voice through the chaos and the noise
I need a midnight clear, a little peace right here
To end this crazy day with a silent night
To end this crazy day with a silent night

 
 
~ I hope you have a silent night and a midnight clear at some point between now and December 25!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Warmer-ish Weather ~ Here we come!

~ Forgot to hit Publish.  Better late than never? ~

Thanksgiving morning, and here we are in St. George.  What?  Yup.

We're staying in a Country Inn and Suites hotel for three nights, enjoying Thanksgiving as a foursome.  It seems to be our new thing.  Last year, we made turkey and all the timmings and hung out by ourselves.  It was the first holiday that we had celebrated with 'just us,' and we loved it!  Although it was weird to not be with extended family, we did have a great time with our own kids and each other.  So, we're doing it again.  We feel so lucky to live close to many of our family members on both my and Dave's sides, so there are ample other occasions to celebrate with them.  Do I sound like I'm trying to convince myself that it's okay?  I guess I am, partially.  But then I think about what I would be doing right now if I weren't sitting in a hotel bed in my pjs with a cup of coffee and my laptop, and I remember why I'm here.  :)

But, on this Day of Thanks, I want to share what I am thankful for.
  • My family
  • Our Health
  • Having all of my needs and most of my wants available to me
  • My beautiful home
  • A church family
  • A truck that's almost fixed
  • Great neighbors who are making sure my house is okay while I'm gone
  • The kennel staff who are taking care of my four-legged kids so I can have a weekend with my two-legged ones
  • My job, and my fun coworkers
  • Fellow bloggers who keep me learning, inspired, and challenged to remember who I am, why I am here, and what I should be focusing on
  • 11:11 on 11/11/11 and a clear path
  • The country I live in and the plenty it affords me
  • My decision to go back to school and how all of those pieces are falling into place
  • So many other things that would take more than a day to chronicle.
As I send my thanks upward for my many life blessings, I am also praying for many who are not as fortunate.

We hope that you had a great Thanksgiving with whatever composes your family, and that you have lots and lots and lots to be thankful for in your life.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

What's up?

Why haven't I posted in a month?  Who knows.  Maybe it's because my camera is broken.  Yes, I remember the post about what a pain it is to add pictures.  But, my mind always thinks, 'Hey, I'll have to blog this' . . . snap, snap, snap.  When the snap, snap, snap is missing, the immediate desire to blog disappears along with it.  Maybe it's because we haven't done anything fun lately.  Nope. That's definitely not it.  We've been to plays, dance performances and shopping, enjoyed the first snow of the year, decorated for two holidays, undecorated for one, added an income for a smaller member of the family, did well in school, and prodded through work.  Maybe it's because I'm tired.  Yes, that might be a definite possibility.  So, now that I'm here . . . 

The weekend before Halloween, Sarah and I went to see a live production of The Wizard of Oz.  It was very well done, very 'community theater,' filled with talent, and creatively done.  The play was performed at Salt Lake Community College's Grand Theatre, a beautiful old playhouse downtown.  The next day, the two of us plus Brian attended Odyssey Dance Company's production of "Thriller," a Halloween-themed dance production with about 20 numbers.  The best part was before the dancing even started when 'gouls' were wandering through the audience scaring the bejeebies out of us!!  I embarrassed my kids tremendously when a very dead and half-rotted man limped up behind me and inched his way closer and closer to my screaming face until I fell out of my chair and landed with my head in Sarah's lap!  hahahahahaha  It was totally awesome!  They were mortified, but laughed along with me when he left.  I wish I had my camera.

The kids both dressed up and went trick-or-treating (yes, I know - don't even say it).  Brian was a nerd for the second year in a row, and Sarah was Mermaid Man from Sponge Bob.  Google it.  Tee hee!!  I wish I had my camera.

We put the cutest thing on our front porch for Halloween - a book shelf.  Weird, right?  Trust me.  Go there with me.  Close your eyes, visualize.  It was up against the wall of the house as you got to the front door.  We loaded it with skulls, pumpkins, strobe lights, bottles filled with Witches Brew and Toxic Tonic, glow in the dark bugs, gargoyles, and a huge winged creature of some sort that sat up top.  It was really cute.    I wish I had my camera.  One trick-or-treater's mom said she was going to copy it next year.  Flattery, right?

The kids both rounded out their first quarter with GREAT grades.  We're very proud of them both.  Sarah got a job hostessing at a restaurant called Mimi's.  She should be starting there next week.  She's excited.  She was also offered a job at a jewelry store in the mall, but couldn't accept it because they needed her to be available on Black Friday, which she can't because we are going to St. George for Thanksgiving weekend.  We're looking forward to that.

I think that about does it.  Now, I'm off to get my camera fixed.

Friday, October 7, 2011

Love languages.

What do I do for those I love? Of course there’s the old stand-bys ~ Hug them, kiss them, ask how their day was, tell them I love them.

But I have to pause to remember the other little things that I do for those I love, not because I agree with, or like, or want to; not because doing that thing gives me any type of personal pleasure; not because I would choose to do that thing myself if the loved one was not involved. But, simply because I love them. Things like:
  • Support him in scouts (those who know, know).
  • Visit her while she's working in the Taco booth at Witchapalooza.
  • Go to Urgent Care when her knuckle is a little too swollen.
  • Mow the lawn.
  • Schedule an MMA lesson.
  • Go to hundreds of horse shows, and volleyball games, and track meets, and basketball games, and drum lessons, and soccer games, and baseball games, and vocal coaching, and concerts, and plays, and school programs.
  • Soak his shirts because the stains didn’t come out the first time through.
  • Run a warm bubble bath to help his sick little body feel better.
  • Let them out, and then back in, and then back out.
  • Make dinner.
  • Buy anniversary wine.
  • Fold their laundry.
  • Do their nights of dishes so they can be with friends.
  • Spend more money and time and energy than I have to spare on fund raisers, school supplies, hobbies, whims, and outings.
  • Miss them.
  • Send them on trips to somewhere awesome – sometimes without me.
  • Take them for a walk because they’ve been cooped up all day.
  • Buy a cute shirt because it looks like something he or she would like to wear.
  • Remind them to do their homework.
  • Ask him on a date night.
  • Pick up my clothes when I’m too tired to.
  • Make him a dog-food milkshake and hold him upright while he eats so he can have a decent meal.
  • Get up with them at 2:00 in the morning because they can’t sleep, don’t feel well, need help with something, need to go outside, or forgot to do an assignment.
Some people don’t recognize these kinds of things as signs of love. It’s pretty much all I see as love. It’s my love language – Acts of Service. Yeah, hugs and kisses are nice, too. But when someone runs me a bath, or stays up with me in the middle of the night, or rubs my neck because they recognize the telltale twisting and turning, or buys me something just because . . . I know they love me. What’s your love language? It’s important for us to know our own. But, we tend to show love the same way that we best receive it. So, it’s even more important for us to recognize that our loved ones’ languages might not be the same as ours, and might not be the same as each others’. I’ll have to ask Dave and the kids to take that quiz and find out for sure what theirs are. Because, when I show them love, I want them to know that’s what it is and to be able to receive it.

Love this

“When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don’t throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.” - Corrie Ten Boom

Friday, September 30, 2011

Serious MomSense

Serious MomSense: The trivialities that lead to a parent's undoing: Published for KSL.con (click HERE for the link) I watched my dad open the box on his dresser, looking for the fingernail clippers I had ...

I love this writer. She is so me. :)

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Life . . . Gibson Style

The last few weeks have taken us to work, school, scouts, Franie's house, the voting booth, the vet, the library, the fire station to deliver dinner, a Pinocchio play by the Herriman Arts Council, Red Robin, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat at Hale Centre Theatre, Church to learn about Radical Forgiveness (which I definitely need to learn), the store (several times), the gym (not enough), and on walks.  That's about it.  :)

Anyone can be excellent. Even me. Even you.


I had the pleasure of watching this video during a recent managers meeting at work.  The person who showed the video was presenting on Excellence.  It was fitting, because we are right in the middle of creating our 2012 Professional Development Plans at work.  I struggle with that because I suffer from a common, but little-understood syndrome called Just a Secretary Complex.  Where can I go?  How can I grow?  What can I do?  I don't have a degree (almost, but not quite), and all I've ever done for money is serve as someone's administrative assistant.  Of course, I've been lots of things, served lots of roles, played lots of parts ~ but never for money, and that's what seems to count in the business world.  They don't give credit for life lessons, just those taught by a professor.  After watching this video and realizing that even if I'm Just a Secretary I can still be excellent, I dove head first into that Plan, coming up with a couple of 'excellent' goals.  Next year, I will learn more about all of the various areas of my company by meeting with administrative assistants from those departments ~ a meeting of the admin minds.  That will also help me grow by teaching them about my department.  I will also be attending a conference in Las Vegas in June and will earn a World Class Assistant certification.  Sounds fancy, huh?  I'm not too concerned about the certificate, but am excited about the topics they'll be teaching, and about going to Vegas and having a few days to myself.  Hopefully these new goals will help keep me challenged in an otherwise mundane role.  But, I certainly can't complain.  I work for the best company ever, and absolutely love working with my team and for my boss.  That's the biggest reward ~ besides the paycheck, of course.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Running In

Have you seen this?


 


 
This was taken by a college videographer who was taking footage for something completely different, but happened to witness a car-motorcycle collision. What happened next was nothing short of extraordinary. Or, was it?

 
A couple of days before this happened Dave and I had an interesting conversation with a guy about what makes humans different from animals. The consensus was that, when faced with danger, animals run away. Humans run in.

 
Animals think of their dying peers as one less to battle with for food, shelter, or territory; one less to compete with for a mate; one less to keep them from getting to the top of the hierarchy. Why don't humans feel the same way? How come, when we see a drowning man, we jump in the pool instead of saying, 'Well, one down, 6,799,999,999 to go.' How come, when we see a car accident, house fire, burglary-in-progress, or attempted kidnapping, we don't think twice before running in? 

 
Is it because we, as a society, are more advanced? moral? ethical? caring? Hmmm . . . I guess sometimes that's true. I think it's more likely in our genetic makeup that gives us a propensity for putting others ahead of ourselves, for reciprocal altruism. Of course, we are not the only creature to care for its own. Take this example from a BBC article I recently read.

 
"If a (vampire) bat goes more than 48 hours without blood, it will begin to starve. If this happens, other bats will regurgitate blood into its mouth until it is nursed back to health."

 
But, the article sites that non-human altruism is often due only to a selfish survival instinct. The bats keep track of their blood donations so they know who to look to when they need a future favor. Do we do that? Do we do for others to build up our Karma-bank balance? Do we do for others as we hope they will do for us? A skewed Golden Rule of sorts? Certainly. Heroes receive news coverage, pats on the back, respect. However, I would venture to guess that we often don’t know the recipient of our favors personally.

In the case of the video, the one person who did know that the man was under the car was the driver. He didn't help out much. I would imagine that his brain was a little scattered at the moment, so his lack of action is understandable.  But, consider the others.  The man who called 911.  The girl who laid on the ground to see if the man under the car was alive.  The guy in the green shirt who pulled the man out.  The officers who put out the fire.  None of these folks thought for a second about their own safety.  The just ran in.

The news is full of it – well, maybe not the sensationalistic 10:00-headlines kind of news. But, if you look for them, you can find stories of heroes all over the world:

  • The cousins who threw rocks and sticks at a would-be kidnapper.
  • The guy driving by who saw a hand sticking out of a canal in mid-winter and jumped in to pull the frozen man to safety.
  • The blind woman rescued from her burning house by her blind neighbor.
  • The 15-year old who grabbed the school bus steering wheel after the driver suffered a heart attack, keeping the bus full of children from running off the road.
  • The 10-year-old who jumped into the path of a train to save her 3-week-old cousin, whose stroller had rolled onto the tracks.
  • The parents with a house full of adopted special needs kids.
  • The family who visited the humane society and came home with a new friend.
  • The person who hands an apple to the man with the cardboard sign on the corner.

What can we each do today to be a hero? It doesn’t take life-saving acts of kindness. It just takes open eyes, and an open heart.

 
That's what I want on my epitaph: She ran in. :)

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

What IS that smell?

As I venture through the various parts of my day, I frequently ask myself, “What IS that smell?” Depending on where I am at the time the question escapes my lips, the answer can vary drastically.

Sometimes, it’s a coworkers lunch and my mouth waters. Other times, it’s a coworkers lunch and my stomach turns.

Sometimes, it’s the Spice-scented tree tucked away in my car’s console. Other times, it’s the exhaust from a passing diesel coming through my car’s vents.

Sometimes, it’s my freshly washed children and I just want to kiss them. Other times, it’s my active and subsequently sweaty children, and I still want to kiss them. :) 

On Saturday morning, I woke up, climbed out of my warm bed, and walked across the freshly vacuumed carpet, realizing simply by the scent that Sarah had used some yummy deodorizer when she did her chores.  I got my dogs out of their room, realizing simply by the scent that they and their beds needed to be washed. I poured a deliciously-smelling mug of freshly brewed coffee and realized simply by the scent that it would not be my only cup that day. I headed toward the front door, realizing simply by the scent that we had all neglected to put our shoes away the night before.  I went out on the front porch and was overwhelmed by yet another, unidentifiable and simply delicious scent. Was it a neighbor’s freshly baked cinnamon rolls? Another neighbor’s newly cut lawn? Fresh soil just laid in the flower beds across the street? Nope. It was this . . .










 
 
 

 
I love my yard.  :)  As I venture through the various parts of my day and am hit by walls of stomach-turning lunch, diesel exhaust, and sweaty children, I will redirect my nose to remember those sweet-smelling flowers, and I will smile.

Monday, September 19, 2011

What were you doing a year ago today?


Sunday, September 19, 2010

As we ran a few errands in town at around 1:00 p.m., we noticed a plume of smoke coming from the mountains behind our neighborhood.  We really didn’t think anything of it because we back up to a military camp, which frequently sets fires and promptly puts them out.  But, by 3:00 when we returned home, it was clearly a much larger blaze than we had witnessed in the past.  

I was driving and noticed two SUV police vehicles behind us as wee got closer to the neighborhood.  They started to pull in our street behind us, and then made a U-turn and blocked the neighborhood from anyone else getting in behind us.  We weren’t sure if they were trying to keep looky-loos out, keeping access clear, or preparing us for something bigger.  It would turn out to be the latter.  

As we drove up the hill toward our house, the entire ridge was engulfed in smoke.  While I started going door to door (or rather, yard to yard since most people were outside watching) letting folks know they had closed our street and I suspected we'd be evacuated soon, Dave and the kids moved our most-precious belongings into priority piles – 1st Priority, must go in the car; 2nd Priority, will go in if there’s room; 3rd Priority, after this is over better organize things so this pile goes away.

What do you take?  Well, obviously everything that breathes goes.  A few days worth of ‘stuff’ to keep those things breathing also goes – medicine, a couple changes of clothes.  We each got a small suitcase.  The kids’ instructions:  Pack 5 outfits & everything you can fit in this suitcase that is important to you.  So, what did they choose?  Sarah got yearbooks, pictures of her friends, a few stuffed animals, her friend’s dress.  Brian packed his pinewood derby car, a basketball trophy, a PlayStation game borrowed from a friend.  Dave grabbed the computer CPU & legal documents.  I took photo albums, my wedding dress, and the kids’ baby blankets.  Everything was stacked up in the garage, just in case.  In between loads, we took turns being ‘the strong one,’ offering comfort to each other in the forms of hugs, Kleenex, and prayers.

About an hour later, a police car drove slowly through the neighborhood, blasting an ominous message from the PA.  “Residents of The Cove, Prepare for evacuation by order of the Fire Marshall.”  Wow.  Really?  Dave was out front talking to a neighbor.  He stopped the officer and asked what exactly that meant.  Get ready, because you may be asked to leave and won’t be given much notice if you are.  The stack of Priority 1’s was moved into the cars.  What fit of the Priority 2’s was shoved in, too.  And, the wait began.

It was a short wait.  About twenty minutes after the warning, a brigade invaded.  Three fire trucks with lights on and sirens sporadically twerping, several police cars, and about 20 uniformed men carrying rolls of caution tape were walking methodically door to door telling residents their worst fears were realized.  We were being evacuated from our homes.  In fact, the fireman who came to our driveway bore an even more foreboding message.  



“Are all of the people out of your house?”
“Yes.”
“Are all of the pets out of your house?”
“Yes.”
“We expect to lose at least 100 homes in this neighborhood.  Do you have everything out of your house that you will need?”

With a sad look at each other, our packed cars containing our whittled-down existence, and our beautiful home, which we built ourselves and moved into just 11 months before, we nodded.  No words would come.

The firemen waited outside while we closed everything up, locking the doors in case a miracle was granted and to protect our hopefully-standing home from potential looters later, piled our two- and four-legged family members into the cars, and drove away.  One last picture was snapped as we pulled out of the drive.  The fireman tied a piece of caution tape to the door to indicate the house was vacant.  

As we headed out of the neighborhood, we saw people leaving by every means:  Trucks, trailers, RVs, cars stuffed to the brim with people and belongings, horse trailers filled with personal effects and with their occupants tied and walking slowly behind.

Our first stop was Brian’s middle school, the Red Cross evacuation shelter.  Never in a million years would we have imagined ourselves needing to go to such a place.   We saw lots of scared neighbors, city officials, volunteers, and news crews.  Finding a spot as far away from the latter as possible, we and our dogs hunkered down for what was proving to be a long and scary night.  That ended quickly when, about 30-minutes into our wait, we were told that the fire was dangerously close to the school and it, too, was being evacuated.  The new shelter was being set up at our local high school, which had barely opened a week before.

Brian and I climbed into the van, Sarah and Dave got into Sarah’s car, and headed in that direction.  When my car arrived at the school, the other was nowhere to be found.  I started to panic after about an hour of not being able to reach either Sarah or Dave by
phone since all of the cell phone circuits were busy.  They finally arrived, explaining that they had snuck down a side road to try and get a better view of the fire, had to stop for gas, and got caught in a huge line of traffic making its way out of town.  That’s what they get for dilly-dallying!

Once we’d all found out way back to each other, we made a plan for the rest of our evening.  It was quite clear that we would not be going home that night, if at all.  After a few quick phone calls, Dave secured some beds for us at his sister’s house, and we headed out.  Our first several hours there were spent watching the news, which they already had turned on.  I don’t think any of us slept for more than a few minutes that night.  

The firemen fought long and hard that night.  Crews were brought in from all over Utah and neighboring states.  We even saw a truck from Lake Tahoe, California, as we were leaving town.  Just like in other disasters, these heroes were heading up the hill while we were heading down it, racing in to save everything we had left behind.  Brave residents drove their backhoes along the mountainside where the fire trucks could not reach in order to carve home-saving fire breaks.  Winds that topped 50 miles per hour and steep terrain that prohibited truck traffic made it a difficult task and sent many first responders running to save themselves from the flames.  We heard later that the last of the neighbors to leave the area were accompanied by herds of deer running out of the forest.  

We both called in to work the next day to excuse ourselves indefinitely, and I notified Sarah’s school.  Of course, Brian’s school was closed and would remain so as long as we were all unable to return to the neighborhood.  We found out that afternoon that winds had shifted, rain showers had cooled hot spots, and it appeared our particular neighborhood would be spared.  It took three full days for fifty-percent of the fire to be contained.  We were finally let back into the neighborhood on Wednesday afternoon.  And the clean up began . . . 

The next several months, until the snow flew, we were faced with daily ash storms as the winds blew in the remains of our mountain.  We cleaned everything in the house multiple times – from walls, to floors, to clothing, to linens, to furniture, to carpet.  Unfortunately, every time the wind blew, we had to do it all over again.  We also had to hear and watch planes flying low over the mountain dropping fire retardant to keep hot spots away.


Once the snow came (and boy did it come!!), we had some relief from the dust.  Until the flood warnings started to – pardon the pun – flood in.  The city provided a free analysis of each property to determine if we would be in danger of mudslides and flooding.  Thankfully, we weren’t.  In fact, following a re-seeding project (which the kids participated in) that added fast-growing non-native grasses to the mountainside, virtually no flooding or mudslides occurred.  We felt very lucky.

Today, we celebrate.  We have each other.  We have a home.  We have a neighborhood.  We have a mountain, albeit bare.  We are thankful for the firemen who risked their lives to save everything we walked away from.  We are honoring them with dinner tomorrow night as a very small and seemingly insignificant token of our thanks.  Thank you United Fire Authority and all of the other first responders who helped fight the Herriman Machine Gun Fire on September 19, 2010.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Healing Field

Monday night, we went into Sandy and visited the Healing Field.  It was surreal.  There were 2,973 American flags, one for each person lost on September 11, 2001.  That number sounds huge, until you see it represented tangibly, and then it becomes unfathomable.  Each flag had a laminated card attached with the name of the person being honored by that flag, his/her location at the time of death, and a short biography about the individual:  The father who had just returned to work after a paternity leave to welcome his new son; The woman on her first day at a new job; The mom who died while waiting for a call from her husband to tell about dropping their three-year-old off for his first day of preschool;  The entire family on their way to visit Grandma.


I expected the visitors to be reverent - similar to the behavior they would show in a cemetery.  It was, after all, a memorial site.  When I saw people laughing, kids playing with the flags and running in and out of the rows, and a general lightheartedness, I found myself growing angry.  Angry at the crowd, angry at the terrorists, angry at this violent world we live in.  About half way through, a thought struck me:  How amazing is it that we can live in a country where we can have such a magnificent memorial without fear for our safety, allow our children to run and play outside on a beautiful evening, laugh with our friends, and be strong enough as a society to overcome and move forward without being crippled by the evils of others.  That shift in my mental paradigm let me go through the rest of the flags, reverent in my own way, and recognizing that my way doesn't have to be everyone else's way.

The day before, on September 11, the kids and I attended church where we talked about Radical Forgiveness - something that Jesus practiced and preached.  We prayed for the perished, the surviving, the grieving, and the guilty.








 




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Friday, September 9, 2011

A funny thing happened on the way to the lake.

Let me start at the beginning. Thursday morning, we packed up our gear to head to Lake Powell. Dave and Brian rode in the truck, pulling the boat. Sarah and I followed in the Camry after she attended her classes for the day. We would stop and pick up one of her friends from her Europe trip, Tanner, along the way to spend the weekend with us. Dave and Brian pulled out without incident at about 11:00. We left around 1:00, ran a couple of quick errands in town to pick up last minute things, and got on the road officially at 2:00. I had Sarah call Dave to let him know our timing.

He said, “The truck just broke down, so stay in town since we might not be able to go now.”


We pulled into a coffee shop parking lot and hi-jacked their WiFi to look up rental car agencies and see if we could get another truck for the weekend. After about 2 hours on the phone, we found one – for $100 a day!!! UGH! But, it would seat six people – more than we needed – so we could eliminate the gas in the second car to help offset the expense.
Meanwhile, Dave and Brian contacted a customer of his that was relatively close by and had him send a tow truck for them. Wow. That was quite the tow bill for the truck AND boat! Our trip cost nearly doubled and we hadn’t even left!


While he was waiting for the tow truck, he called his sister who has a truck, asking if we could borrow it. She said, “Sure! It’s in the garage and we’re out of town, so just go get it and you can use it for the weekend.” They live near us, so Sarah and I headed over there to do a car swap, planning to leave the Camry there, and take the truck down to meet Dave, Brian, and the boat. Lo and behold, when we arrived at their house, there was nothing in the garage but an empty space. I called Dave back with the news, and he learned from his sister that they had actually taken the truck to the airport when they left town. We could use their 4-Runner, but it was in the shop – about ten miles and 90-minutes away in construction traffic. So . . . Sarah and I went in their house and followed directions to the location of the key, went to the shop to get the 4-Runner, took the Camry back to our house (which, although about 30 miles away was faster than going back through construction traffic to park it at their place for the weekend), transferred all of our belongings, got the GPS and iPod that we had previously forgotten, installed Dave’s new pond filter which hadn’t arrived (much to his dismay) before he left, and finally go on the road to meet Dave and Brian – and the boat – at about 6:00. We got a lot accomplished in that four hour delay!

Once we connected, we drove together to Beaver (about 2 hours south of us) to pick up Tanner, and finished up our drive to Page, Arizona. We were grateful to have our GPS since we’d not been to the south end of the lake in about 20 years, and would be unexpectedly arriving after dark. The GPS estimated that we would arrive at 11:45. Well, that time came and went, right about when we passed a mileage indicator that said we had another 88 miles to go. What?? Oh yeah, Arizona doesn’t recognize Daylight Savings, so we lost an hour. We finally pulled in around 1:00 a.m.

Our room was great, with 2 big beds plus a roll-away for Tanner, a large patio, and a gorgeous view of the lake (which we discovered the next morning). We all slept like babies, and spent the next three days wakeboarding, fishing, cliff diving, swimming, tubing, running up and down a sand hill, and getting way too much sun. Monday morning, we enjoyed the restaurant’s breakfast buffet before getting back on the road home. The return seemed much faster, partially because we gained the hour back, but mostly because the car didn’t break down! We made quick work of getting unpacked, cleaning and vacuuming the inside of the borrowed 4-Runner, running it through the car wash and filling the tank, & returning it to Dave’s sister, and then had our ‘last splurge’ at Chili’s for a late night dinner.

Now, it’s back to reality! We’re both at work, Brian’s at school, and Sarah’s home working on her online classes.

Since each is worth 1,000 words, I’ll let these tell the story of the trip itself.