Saturday, March 21, 2020

Roots and Roosts

Have you ever seen a Redwood tree? Redwood trees are massive. No, not massive. That's not big enough. They're great, enormous, Herculean. They're giant. That's what they're called, actually, in northern California. Giant Redwoods. I grew up with them, rode horses through them, picnicked among them, slept, cozy in my bed or in a sleeping bag on the deck, sheltered within a forest of them. And, after a childhood immersed, and 40 years removed, they were no less awe-inspiring when I returned to them.
I recently took a vacation in the place where I grew up. Well, not completely as in from-childhood-to-adulthood grew up, but where I consider my 'Hometown.' I traveled with Sarah and a whole slew of female family members to meet up with even more female family members (and a few token males), and some female friends I’d known since elementary school, or earlier. It was estrogen overload.

Sarah and I arrived on Sunday afternoon, flying into San Francisco International Airport. As far as we know, no one on our plane had Coronavirus. (That's not another post, but you can look it up if you don't know what I'm talking about. As we entered this decade, we fell headlong into a pending pandemic. It was great.) The airport was just slightly larger than our little Salt Lake one (pretend there’s a sarcastic emoji here), and we had to take a train to the rental car garage. Alamo was almost alarmingly blasé about us picking up the car, telling us to “take anything from the white car down – the keys are in them.” Of course, they were mostly white. Cars tend to be mostly white. We picked a cute Hyundai Elantra, a white one, which was supposed to fit nicely into the carport of the Airbnb we would eventually arrive at in Capitola. Luckily our two large suitcases fit in the surprisingly spacious trunk – two girls gone for 8 days equals lots of stuff. And away we drove.


The first two nights were spent in San Francisco, giving ourselves a whirlwind tourist ben-shirt of all things SFO. After an uneventful 10-minute drive from the airport and a lovely seaside meal at Kincaid’s Fish, Chop, and Steakhouse, we retired to the Bay Landing Hotel in Burlingame, just south of San Francisco proper and right along the bay – thus the name, to lay out our plans for the next two days.








Monday held a road trip of sorts. Sarah had looked up a number of things in the city that she wanted to see, so we used a maps app to design a loop. Yes, there’s an app for that.


The Painted Ladies are seven Victorian houses all lined up and across from a park named after the neighborhood in which it sits, Alamo Square. I thought there were six, as the seventh (or maybe it’s the first) sits on the corner and looks absolutely nothing like the others but, it is indeed one of seven. The lone wolf. The drab sister. The park itself is known for its views of San Francisco, its history as a watering hole along the 1800s trail between Mission Dolores and the Presidio Army fort, and, of course, the architecture of the surrounding homes which have appeared in the backgrounds of numerous movies and TV shows over the years, including Full House and Invasion of the Body Snatchers (that’s a wide variety, huh?). The Painted Ladies are the most famous but, in our opinion, not the most beautiful of these famous houses. The row houses, built between 1850 and the early 1900s, are lined up like Victorian women in richly colored dresses and ornate accessories, prim and proper and painfully-maintained with not a blade of grass out of place. Unfortunately for us, one of the homes was currently for sale (it subsequently sold for $3,550,000 - $800k over the asking price) and was covered by scaffolding. Apparently, it was a ‘fixer-upper’ at that price. Sheesh. We were lucky to find a street spot just off Steiner Street and hurried across for a peek and a pic.


The Drab Sister
Lunch took us to Kippu in the heart of Japantown. It wasn’t where we planned to go, Hinodeya, but when we saw the line at our first choice, we wandered the main drag until we ran across this little gem. And we’re so glad we did. It was crowded, busy, reasonably priced, and delicious. We started with a great sushi roll with, clearly, very fresh fish, and Gyoza (guess who had which?!), and then plowed through bowls of ramen that the restaurant is famous for. So, so good.



Lombard Street is literally that, a street, that you just . . . drive down. But, it’s only about a car-length wide, one city block long, and makes eight hairpin turns. With our little rental’s, let’s just say, lack of umph, I was real-glad we weren’t driving up it! It was cool and scary and an experience that I probably don’t need to do again.


The Palace of Fine Arts was closed, but we went anyway. The grounds may or may not be the crux of the place but, if they aren’t, they should be. They were spectacular, with a huge, octagonal, domed ceiling held up by stone pillars that are topped with statues that are, literally, larger than life. The statues peered down into yards-wide chalices so you could only see the backs of them and were left wondering what they were gazing upon. In each of the interior angles of the dome was a stone angel that stood twice my height. I know this because there was one standing in an enclosed courtyard, of sorts, and I was able to stand right next to it. Surrounding this central structure were ponds with lush foliage, swans, and relaxing San Franciscans. It was, in a word, stunning. I did leave wanting to go back and find the elusive interior building that, presumably, houses fine art. If it is any comparison to the exterior, it will be worth the second trip.

Battery Spencer, the first of two stops to view the Golden Gate Bridge, which is, inexplicably, not golden but red, did not disappoint. It sits above the bridge, so you are looking down upon and across the Golden Gate with Alcatraz and the cityscape in the background. Winds were brutal and it was cold by California standards, so we admired the view, posed for some selfies, and headed to the opposite view at Marshall’s Beach.







Expectation . . . 
. . . Reality

As we were driving from one viewpoint to the other, Riley called – well, Brian called from Riley’s phone, to let me know that his phone had crashed, and he wasn’t sure how to proceed. After offering some advice about finding an Apple store to try to have it restored or, worst-case, buy a replacement, we hiked out onto the pathway that led along Marshall’s Beach but about 250 feet above it atop a cliff. It was difficult in either location to get a photo without a ton of tourists in it, but we managed to get a few shots that did little justice to the real thing. On a future trip, we’d love to have the time to take the mile-long hike down the bluff and onto the actual white-sand and lightly wave-kissed beach, which is secluded and known for clothing-optional sunbathing – one of which will be a treat for the eyes, the other of which may or may not. Next time, SFO. Next time.




The Lincoln Park Steps sit at the end of a dead-end road and, as you approach them, you think you’re staring at an intricate tile mosaic. As you get closer, the illusion is broken, the third dimension comes to life, and the flat wall becomes a steep set of 52 tile-faced stairs. We were losing daylight, so this was our quickest ‘stop’ of the day – okay, we did a drive by and stopped long enough for some pictures (from inside the car – cold and getting dark, remember?).

Who even knew about the Dutch Windmill? Someone, apparently, because it’s on the w-w-w. It’s one of two windmills that cap opposite ends of Golden Gate Park. They were constructed for just what you’d think – to pump water – because the park needed substantial irrigation to keep it, well, park-like, and since it sat on sand dunes, innovation was required. Since it was only 1903, innovation wasn’t what we might think of it as today – you know, like pipes and such. Thus, the windmills were built. We parked along the road, took a short walk into the adjoining tree line and, boom . . . there it was. It stands 75 feet, and each of the four ‘spars’ is 102 feet long. It no longer carries the 30,000 gallons per hour that it was once known to do, and has been restored more than once and, frankly, probably needs be again. This, too, requires another visit because it is surrounded by gardens that flourish with tulips in the spring. Next time, SFO. Next time.


The Windmill sits just off of Ocean Beach, and we opted to drive along The Great Highway and take in the sunset before heading back to our hotel to eat our leftovers and some supplemental Grub Hub, and turn in early in preparation for a very early departure the following morning to check out of the hotel and enjoy another day of ben-shirts.
 


On Tuesday, we headed to Pier 39. I read some reviews about the spot before we headed up there, telling us how amazing the Wharf was, and to be sure to allow at least one full day to explore, preferably more. When we arrived and had traversed the entirety of Pier 39 in less than an hour, killing about 30 minutes of that eating the obligatory clam chowder and sourdough lunch (well, I did - Sarah ate garlic cheese bread), we decided that the reviewers were very wrong. But there were sea lions, so all was redeemed.

SARAH's PICS

After reading a bit more following our uneventful visit, we learned that they weren’t the same – Pier 39 and Fisherman’s Wharf, I mean. I thought the terms were interchangeable. They’re not at all. I was, sadly, very wrong. Fisherman’s Wharf is the entire area around the various piers, including streets and streets and streets lined with shops, restaurants, bars, and activities. Ahh. So, that’s why the reviewers suggest a day or more. Next time, SFO. Next time.

Next, we walked about 6 long blocks (from Pier 39 to Pier 33) to wait for the launch call to board Hornblower, our ferry to Alcatraz. It was a beautiful day in the low 60s, and the sea breeze added that salty element to the air that is my soul’s umami. The ride was only about 10 minutes. It is only about a mile, after all, from the island to the mainland. No time for the widely-touted and very expensive on-board cocktails.



When we arrived, we ate the rest of our lunch while listening to a short, informative, and mandatory talk by a park ranger (Did you know it’s a National Park?). We climbed the equivalent of a 13-story building – that’s a true statement . . . look it up – and then some, hiking to the summit where the bunkhouse sits, the iconic but non-descript tan building perched at the top of the island built, ironically, by the prisoners who would ultimately house it. Our tickets included a great audio tour that took about 90 minutes or so and required more walking both inside and out, but told us the captivating history of the island (read about it – it’s amazing and so interesting), the escape rumors and true tales, and all about the ‘staff’ that actually lived on the island – with their children! – and cared for the prisoners. The kids took a ferry to the mainland for school and, while they were gone, the prisoners were allowed outside for ‘yard time.’ So crazy. I guess I never thought about all of the people who would have to have been there 24x7 to maintain some semblance of order and humanity for the ones relegated to living in a 9’ by 4’ cell for much of their lives. We were glad the tour ended inside, as the weather had quickly turned to quintessential Northern California winter rain and gotten quite a bit colder. We sat inside on the ride back and discovered that the widely-touted and very expensive on-board cocktails were, actually, non-existent. Hmmm. Maybe you only get them on the way TO the island, since you won’t be driving there. Next time, SFO. Next time.












After returning to the mainland, Sarah and I drove to the Daly City home of Elizabeth’s longtime friend, Ved (pronounced Vay-d), and his husband, Andrew. Elizabeth had flown in earlier that afternoon and was at their place alone while they got haircuts and worked and did boy things. We ladies enjoyed a glass of wine while we waited for them and caught up a bit with our Babeth. The boys hosted for a delicious dinner and some great conversation about work (Ved is an honest-to-goodness rocket scientist who works for Nasa and is recently involved in coral reef preservation), families (Ved’s dad was a lifelong family friend of Meher, so Elizabeth has known Ved since he was an infant), and pets (they have a charming dog that Ved rescued from the Russian subway and brought back to America!). It was a delightful evening.

We drove for about 2½ hours in the rain that evening to get to Capitola and our CUTE Airbnb. It wasn’t supposed to take quite that long, but I was being uber cautious, given the circumstances. The drive was absolutely terrifying, with water spraying on the windshield to the point of blindness, insane darkness that you couldn’t penetrate more than a few feet with the headlights, and towering forests on one side and steep ocean cliffs on the other. And an unfamiliar road. We vowed that we would not do that drive at night anymore.

But we made it. The room we rented came with a spot in the carport which, after a very tight turning radius, multipoint turn, and guided squeeze into my side, we left our rental car in and headed up to the second level. We were so pleased with our room. It was SUPER tiny, but well-appointed, and cutely decorated. Needless to say, after that day, we quickly crashed for the night.






After a great breakfast at Zeldas and being entertained by bathing seagulls splashing in the estuary of Soquel Creek and the Pacific, grateful for the nearby drink of fresh water, Wednesday took us to Big Sur. I can’t imagine a more beautiful place, although I may be slightly biased. I’ve had original interpretations of its splendor in oil on canvas, courtesy of my daddy, for my whole life. It was one of his favorite places to paint – paint at, and paint as a subject. We went there as kids. Played on the beach. Felt the spray. Smelled the salt. Searched the tidepools. But just like its waves cannot be tamed, battering the rocky shoreline for eons, its beauty cannot be fully captured, and I was still awestruck looking at it. I remember the ice plants running down the steep, rocky cliffs. I remember the bridge – although I think that may be more from photos and television. I remember the sea birds soaring and diving and calling, ever on the hunt for a small bite. And I remember the fog.


















It’s like something out of a horror flick, the fog. If it gets thick enough, you cannot see much beyond the hood of the car. And, not being used to those driving conditions, it’s real hard to go the requisite 35 mph around those hairpin turns, let alone the 45 or 50 mph required to avoid being rear ended by a local. We were in it most of the way back. when you’re getting ready to drive into it, the meaning behind the term ‘blanket of fog’ becomes very clear. You can see it coming, like an omen, like impending doom. And when you descend (or ascend, as the case may be) out of it, it’s like the sun coming out from behind a cloud. Suddenly, you’re in the most spectacular, sparkling sunlight, and it’s as if you’re only recalling a faded dream, a faded, fog-filled dream. I hate driving in fog. Hopefully people who live there get used to it. They must, based on their speed and driving agility.
We rounded out the day at The Brookdale Lodge, arriving well after dark. 
Brookdale Lodge sits at the ‘far end’ of town, about 5 miles from where I grew up (it’s not a very big place, remember?), and is famous for its ghosts. So much so that it garnered the attention of the likes of Zak Bagans and was visited by the cast and crew of Ghost Adventures, among other paranormal investigators. Once the ‘place to be’, Brookdale Lodge was frequented by locals and celebrities alike, including Marilyn Monroe, Henry Ford, President Herbert Hoover, my parents, and the Mob (although, hopefully not at the same time).

Psychic Sylvia Browne connected with more than sixty spirits within the walls of the Lodge. But there are four that continue to interact with, mystify, and terrify visitors to this day.

The Lodge was built over Clear Creek, which runs right through what was once the Brook Room dining hall. An elevated stage graced one end where cabaret shows and solo performers were featured, and diners enjoyed 5-star meals at linen-draped tables that lined the creek bed. Sadly, this was where tragedy struck. Before the hotel was built, Sarah Logan, a relative of the original developer, drowned. It was 1892, and she was just 10. Providing a magical portal between this life and the next, the lifeforce of the creek keeps her spirit in close proximity to visitors, but trapped, sadly, along the water’s edge.




A second ghost is said to be that of another young girl who drowned in the Lodge’s indoor pool, which was used in part for mermaid shows. There is a below-ground room with one glass wall that looks into the depths of the pool so people could watch the ‘mermaids’ as they performed. The girl haunts that room, appearing dripping wet among the spectators, or floating in the water itself. 

Two of the sleeping rooms are said to be haunted by ghosts who do things like steal people’s keys, shift their clothes around in the closet, and cause a general ruckus while the guests are trying to sleep.

The darkest entity, though, inhabits the pool’s deck. There have been so many frightening and dangerous reports of his antics that the indoor deck has been closed off. Why there is still water in the pool is beyond me. Kids (I suspect) have snuck into the cordoned off areas of the Lodge and wreaked havoc, including trying to break the glass wall in the Mermaid Room. What the literal . . . ??? That's the blue part in the center of the picture above. That's glass, holding back all of the water that is still in the pool. I guess they didn’t think about what would happen when 100,000 gallons of water came crashing in on them if they were successful. Thank goodness they weren’t.

In one of the Lodge’s storage areas, there is an attic door that, when police arrived at the Lodge at one point long ago, was discovered to contain a fully-functioning bookie room suspected to have been used by Al Capone (his sister lived in Santa Cruz and he frequented the area and the Lodge regularly).

Although these most famous areas of the haunted history are not open to the public, lucky for us, my longest friend, Amber, whom I have known since the age of 3, works there now and was able to give us a full tour – in the dark!! It was so creepy and cool! I captured some orbs flying around in the Mermaid Room on video.
It was SO amazing to see Amber. We haven’t seen each other in about 20 years, when our kiddos were just little and I took Sarah and my mom with me on a work trip to San Francisco. Her son, Jacob, is just a few months younger than Sarah. He is now in the Marines and was at boot camp when we visited so, unfortunately, we didn’t get to see him. I sure hope to do that soon. I have so many fond memories of Amber and my childhood together, and it was heartwarming to reminisce about them all. Amber and I learned that our lives have continued taking many parallel paths. We felt like we connected on a very deep level, and are looking forward to developing a new, grown-up version of our precious childhood friendship.

On Thursday, Sarah and I went back to Felton in the morning. It’s grown up a little bit since I’ve been gone. As of the last census, Felton, CA., now has about 4,500 people. But, when I lived there in the early ‘70s, it was half that (at least according to Wikipedia). Oh, how I’ve missed you, tiny mountain town.

Sarah patiently indulged me while I drove around and pointed out where things used to be, and where some still were, and all the memories that went along with each location:

Mount Hermon Christian Conference Center, where my mom worked first as a maid and then as the secretary to the Human Resources Director. Where we would walk from our house through the forest and over the rickety bridge, along and above Zayante Creek, to visit The Fountain, a then-candy shop and now-café, and buy watermelon Jolly Rancher sticks and break off just enough to fit in our mouths,  carefully melting and molding them to make pretend retainers. Where we would run over the footbridge between the plaza where the book shop sat and the administration building where my mom worked. Where Ponderosa Lodge, the place where the high school kids went to summer camp, was SUCH a long walk for a seven-year-old but had the best big pool with a high dive AND a low dive, and where my brother drank a mouthful of bees after leaving his soda on the pool’s edge. (Turns out it’s only about 200 yards from the administration building but, apparently that was really far for a lazy little seven-year-old walking in the summer sun.) And where the day camp was, where we would volunteer to paint noodles and push swings and tie shoes of the little ones whose parents were learning about writing or marriage or music or God.





Roaring Camp, where my dad was the conductor for a touristy train ride and would dramatically jump off the train to switch the track after it passed, then run to jump back on the back of the caboose just before we would seemingly leave him in the dust, a little Western town that had wooden sidewalks and cowboys and a candy store.

Foster’s Freeze, where my girlfriends and I would meet or walk to after school and get ice cream parfaits, a tall glass container layered with fresh fruit, ice cream, and whipped cream. I can still taste it.

The doctor’s office (Dr. Peterson?) where we would go for sickness, injury, and check-ups, unless he came to our place.

The Safeway where we bought groceries and shoes, and the huge grassy field between it and one of my houses where I walked through to get to the school bus, rode down the hill on cardboard, and fed the beautiful horses who grazed there and I pretended were my own.

The little white library that looked like it was straight out of Little House on the Prairie, where my friend and I sang at the retirement part of said doctor and where we would listen to stories told to us by our moms or neighbors or random nice grownups who happened to be reading to their own children or neighbors and didn’t mind us sitting in, that smelled like old wood and had creaky floors.

The covered bridge that we would ride horses over hearing the echo of their clippity-clop bouncing off the river below, and the stables on the other side where they were kept and where we spent countless, dirty, blissful summer days.
My elementary school where I was a total hippy-child who played Red Rover and burned my butt on metal swings and slides, where I was in Miss Frisbey’s class in first, second & third grade (I told you it was a small town), got in trouble for asking when we were decorating the Christmas tree and ran headlong into a metal basketball hoop while doing the 100-yard dash during the Presidential Physical Fitness exam in Mr. Brown’s fourth grade class, met Amy and read The Secret Garden in Ms. Semenza’s fifth grade class, and hated absolutely everything about my sixth grade class to the point where I can’t even remember the teacher’s name; and my junior high school where I had a math teacher who looked like Santa and smelled like cloves, an English teacher who helped me realize I needed glasses and got low blood sugar if I didn’t eat breakfast, and a long concrete ramp we had to walk down to get to the cafeteria (it was shared between the elementary, junior high, and high school – small town, remember?), and the time that I got flat-tired by someone coming down the hill behind me and ended up landing right on my tailbone.
San Lorenzo Valley Elementary School
San Lorenzo Valley Junior High
My preschool, Tic Tot, where I rode tricycles up and down the concrete ‘roads’ (complete with painted stripes), and played in the red plastic house, and build sandcastles, and ate lunch at tiny tables, and sat in small circles to listen to stories, and took naps on mats in front of a roaring fire with our teacher humming nearby in a rocking chair.

The streets where I lived (there were three in those 9 years). I'll have to find pictures of these in my family photos and add them later.
~        Lazywoods Road (which is actually Lazy Woods – 2 words – but I never knew that so it will forever be one word to me) where I lived from age 2 to about 7 or 8 or maybe 10, and where we went to Polly and Ray’s house and made Christmas ornaments, and where I went down to the bottom of the loop for Brownies, and where the Murphys lived across the street, and where my dad taught my friends to draw the Flintstones in the carport for my fifth birthday, and we rode bikes around the back yard and up to the bedroom window to play drive-thru before there even was such a thing (why didn’t we patten that?), and we had a cat named Tiger, and I spent a lot of time naked;
~        The Green’s House, which was on Zayante Road (named after the creek, I suppose) and was grey but was rented to us by the Greens, and which was next door to Karen, and up the hill from the Suttons, and above the A-frame where I babysat, and where we rubbed poison oak leaves all over each other and became ‘The Poison Oak Monster’, never realizing that we would actually get a horrible rash by doing it, and where I cut my hair short for the first time, and where I wore a homemade long dress for my 10th birthday, which showed off said haircut, and where my friends and I put on our long dresses and shucked corn at the picnic table on the back deck and pretended we were Laura Ingalls, and where my cat ‘rescued’ baby rabbits only to accidentally kill them, and where my brother’s parakeet, Bingo, died, and where I petted and fed carrots to previously-mentioned horses over the fence, and where my last memory of Grama Nan took place, making cookies with bacon grease, and where I loved to be in the garage with my dad when he was painting because he played cool Jazz music and it smelled of turpentine
~        and the Canyon House, which was on Canyon Road, where I had my first ‘own room’ with a poster of John Wayne, and where I fell asleep to Somewhere Over the Rainbow (which I’d picked from a mental file cabinet filled with songs), forgotten prayers, and reassurances that God knew what I was going to say, and tickly back scratches from my sweet mama, where the back of the house was on stilts way above the San Lorenzo River and surrounded by thick forests, and where the boy of my dreams lived up the street (whose name, Sean, when spelled out on the phone buttons, was the last four digits of my phone number and so was, of course, fated to be my forever love), and where a foreign exchange student from Switzerland lived (Sonja?), and where we would slide down the stairs in sleeping bags, and where I thought my brother’s bent knee was a wobbling, headless body, when I woke up mid-TV show screaming, and where my other brother, who had forgotten his housekey, climbed up said stilts on the back of the house and tried to get in the deck door after school, not realizing I was sleeping on the couch just inside and otherwise home alone, causing me to run out the front door to a neighbor’s house reporting someone was breaking in, resulting in a call to the police and my mom, and the arrival of a SWAT-like team of police with guns drawn meeting said brother as he wandered to the front door with a bowl of cereal and a bewildered look.

The church we were taken to when we were too young to choose, where I would fall asleep in my mom’s lap during the ‘long prayer’ and hike myself down the stairs to the Sunday school rooms to color books about apostles and make macaroni necklaces and ‘stained glass’ with wax paper and crayons, grateful to miss out on the majority of the grown-up service.

The church where we went when we were old enough to choose, where I loved my fat pastor with the black beard who had a hearty laugh and looked like a pirate, and learned to sing praises and translate scripture and make promises to God. The church where I tried to jump my bike over one of those concrete curb things that are at the front of a parking spot, only to turn my front wheel in mid-air and land squarely on my chin.
The camp where I spent the best week of every summer, singing Kumbaya along with a strumming guitar while firelight warmed our socked and sandaled feet, learning to weave plastic wires, swimming for hours, eating off of trays at picnic tables, wading in the muddy river, and falling in love with camp counselors named Dynamo or Dolphin or Delaware and hoping beyond hope that he would be back next summer when I was older.


And, Henry Cowell. Oh, Henry Cowell. I missed you most of all. Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park is the stuff of fairy walks. Sheltered by towering, Giant Redwoods (no, you’re not getting it – stand up . . . now look up . . . now bend your back so you are looking beyond straight above you, almost behind you . . . now you might be able to see the tops of the trees, but probably not – that big), you walk on spongy, loam-laden, wide, smooth paths, dodging in and out of filtered sunbeams, feeling cool air that is lightly spiced with pine and earth and coal from the Roaring Camp Railroad that runs just along one side. Following along a self-guided nature walk, you play a game of seek-and-find to locate the oldest (1,800 years), tallest (285 feet), and widest (17 feet) conifers, the scary-until-you-see-them tiny and bright yellow banana slugs, the native birds that serenade you when you’re walking and screech warnings when you get too close to whatever invisible thing they’re guarding, the miniature clover fields, and the arched trunks that protected the likes of John Fremont and other early travelers from rain and enemies. Beyond the tourist area is miles and miles of these same spongy, loam-laden, wide, smooth paths, where we would ride our horses at full-speed, letting them navigate the rises and falls and turns and obstacles, dodging in and out of filtered sunbeams, feeling cool air that is lightly spiced with pine and earth and coal, and bringing us safely back to the stables giggling and dusty and saddle-sore, feeling as free as a fairy. Did I mention how big Redwood Trees are?

Filled with nostalgia and peanut butter sandwiches we crafted on the dashboard, Sarah and I headed next to Scotts Valley, about 10 minutes away, to meet up with my other elementary school girlfriend, Amy, and her daughter, Ally. I kick myself for not taking any pictures. My mom, sister, and Aunt Vicki had arrived by then as well, so they joined us for a glass of wine, appetizers, and reminiscing & catching up. We’d learned along the years that Amy and I both had David Paul’s for husbands (mine being first and middle names, and hers being first and last), and that we were both pregnant with our first kiddos at the same time. We learned this time that we’d both worked in our kids’ schools and were still married to our David Pauls, our high school sweethearts, for 30+ years. Parallels. It was so great to see Amy, and we were both able to confirm and clarify our memories from being such long-ago friends. We didn’t have nearly as much time to become soulmates as Amber and I had before I moved away, since Amy and I had only met in fifth grade. But we vowed to see each other again, and I look forward to getting to know her as grown-ups.

Mom, Elizabeth, and Vicki headed off then to see Aunt Jacque. Three sisters soon to be reunited. Sarah and I followed along shortly thereafter and were able to give everyone a quick hug in the dark before heading back to Capitola.

We rounded out our evening with a walk along Capitola Village to find some dinner, settling on very easy and quite tasty pizza by the slice, and headed back to our room to crash after an emotionally spent day.

Friday morning found us back in Scotts Valley, meeting up with family and friends for a delicious brunch. We were joined by Aunt Jacque and Uncle Ronnie, cousins Darren and Barry (that’s another post), Amber, and, of course, Elizabeth, Mom and Vicki. Like I said, estrogen overload with a side of males. 

(L-R) Ronnie, Barry, Elizabeth, Sarah, Me,
Amber, Darren, Jacque, Mama, Vicki

Sisters and Cousins
Front (L-R): Jacque, Gloria, Vicki
Back (L-R): Darren, Barry, Sharon, Elizabeth
As they were heading on to Henry Cowell and we had already been, Sarah and I instead wandered along the closed Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk, where I spent many a summer day riding the Giant Dipper and the Jet Star, taking the Sky Glider from one end to the other when we were too lazy or sunburned to walk, wasting money trying to win a giant stuffed monkey by throwing dull darts at loosely filled water balloons, or binging on soft pretzels and cotton candy and salt water taffy. I was so sad that the rides were closed, but we decided not to spend the money to come back the next day when the rides were open, since just walking along the wooden boardwalk was enough to send me whirling back into a sea-breezy childhood.


Arriving back in Capitola late afternoon, we hit up a wine tasting and Sarah bought a ‘thank you’ bottle for her friend, Tai, who was caring for Mila while we were away. Then we walked down the Capitola Wharf, had some cocktails and appetizers at the Wharf Restaurant, and watched the surfers catching their last waves of the day as the sky took us into yet another familiar scene from my walls, a breathtaking California sunset fronted by wave-splashed cliffs.

I loved this painting in the winery





Our final day brought us to the mountain cabin of my cousin’s girlfriend for a homemade breakfast. It was delicious, of course, and we were able to meet the husband of yet another cousin who, herself, was not there as she was attending her son’s Navy boot camp graduation. We used Facebook Portal to video chat with them, though, and enjoyed watching her Corgi, Dash (a hero who receives full credit for saving them all from Aunt Jacque’s house fire), play a surprisingly quick game of fetch considering his short legs and rotund body. Sarah and I cut out early and headed back to see Amber one more time, this time at her house. We learned of more amazing parallels with work, kids, husbands, repercussions, new beginnings, kids, parents, and the otherworldly.






Amber makes these adorable acorn people
and painted wooden spoons. Of course,
we brought some of each home!






On our way back to the Airbnb, Sarah and I stopped at a bakrey (Gayle’s?) to get some dessert for the night and breakfast for the morning, and found the most amazing, well-run, and well-appointed pastry shop that either of us has ever been in. We got way too much, including a full loaf of famous northern California sourdough, and headed back to the room to turn in early in anticipation of our early morning trip to the airport.

Sunday morning, we left around 6:30 (a.m. – ugh) to head back to San Francisco for our return flight home. Of course, it was raining. Again. But, having left plenty of time for Starbucks and conscientious driving, we took our time on CA-17 to head ‘over the hill.’

Well, it’s a good thing we did because, just outside of Los Gatos, a large SUV driving in the left lane began to come over into mine. I honked and braked, and probably yelled a few expletives, before I realized, just as it started to spin around to face me, that it was sliding. I slammed on the brakes and screeched to a stop, just in time to see it bounding over and coming to a lifted stop atop a guardrail, facing oncoming traffic. We pulled over just as we heard two other cars slam into each other behind us. I called 9-1-1 while Sarah snapped into nurse-mode and jumped out of the car to check on the passengers. Thankfully, no one was seriously hurt. I think the man driving the SUV was dazed, because he actually proceeded to drive his car off the guardrail even though his front fender was bent into the passenger-side tire. And the girl who had run into the back of another, smaller SUV was as well, because she didn’t realize she would need a tow truck, even though water from the radiator was pouring out from under the car, and there was virtually no engine compartment left on her little car. We were all horrified to see that the woman she ran into had a dog kenneled in the back, but he appeared to be unhurt as well, if not quite shaken up. Once the emergency responders had been called and we’d been given permission to leave the scene, we got on our way -- only to discover that, as she jumped out of the car, Sarah had dropped her jacket and phone outside the car. We pulled over and did a thorough search for it, called it, called the police to have them look at the scene, and even went back to where the accident had taken place, but they were no where to be found. She was so mad and sad, and it was really a bummer to have that be the final event of our otherwise lovely trip.

Alamo was equally blasé about us returning the car and, after a cursory glance at the mileage, they sent us on our way. After a return train ride, short security delay, and delicious crepes at the gate, we boarded our flight and gratefully returned home, exhausted and recharged.
A view of the Bingham Copper Mine from our plane.
This is just a few miles from our house, so we
probably flew right over our neighborhood shortly after
this, although we weren't able to see it.
It was a lovely trip with a perfect mix of family, friends, and alone time with Sarah. I am so thankful to have had this time with my earliest girlfriends, who help define my childhood, but more so with my daughter, who has helped define me in every other way. I can’t wait to do it again, finding hidden wonders, going on whirlwind tourist ben-shirts, and making new memories with one of my favorite traveling companions.

(Oh, and it turns out the aforementioned ‘pending pandemic’ will be another post, so stay tuned if you don’t want to look it up and were living under a rock at the beginning of 2020.)